I am a strong believer of destiny and the ways of life. There are certain things and certain people you are meant to meet from different walks of life. Would you mistake that as a coincidence or would you open your arms and welcome the angel in your life.
I was 11, when for us staying online or living without a laptop or social networking sites was not indispensable. I had been eyeing my elder cousins at home, when I learnt what chat-rooms and chatting was all about. Living through chatting and excitement of making pen-friends or online friends who you randomly met, meant a lot.
A gut feeling at once, told me that this guy had a decent name and with the way he initiated the conversation he would be a genuine human-being. The chatting began day in and day out, with waiting for each other online to leaving offliners to fix up a time for the next chat. Gradually, email ids and phone numbers were exchanged. Being of the same age-group and both still studying in school, was a bonus to the same subjects we were studying. We would talk about love interests to favourite subjects and the phone conversations would never end.
We both don’t know where this was leading to. The chats grew more and more intensive, with a stranger now becoming a great friend. Until one day, the attachment level grew to a point we could not do without each other, we needed to talk even if we rung up each other through public booths. Cell phones really never existed when I was that young. I am not that old too now, but yes I now know him for the past 11 years. Half my life lived till now has been with him.
One day I was informed about his girlfriend who he had been with for 3 years and this was the only odd thing I dint know about his life. The insecurity factor burnt me, and I let the ashes bid a goodbye to him. We lost touch, for two years until one day I shifted school. My new best friend had a similar number like his. I once late in the night, over-stressed and dying to talk to her happened to dial his number. Everything had changed, except for his ventricular voice. With changed schedules, and pressed for time we could not talk but decided to meet up.
My heart was pumping to meet him for the first time ever. I knew it was a date. One meeting was enough to build up the trust, the confidence and the comfort level which a physical presence has to make. The shift came along from being best friends to being in the longest pseudo relationship. It is amazing to see how strangers like these, become friends and start meaning the world to us and the feeling is reciprocated and indescribable. “To the world you mean one person but to one person you mean the world”.
Tanvi Gupta
The Purple Sack
